Thoughtful. Adaptive.
Expansive.
My Approach/Your Process
Getting Clear!
We work together to get clear about what you want to work on, by setting goals. I infuse playfulness to the exploration and expansion of your current perspectives and add a clear vision to your desired future.
(For example: you want to be able to orgasm on demand. We consider the long term eventuality, what we need to get there. Then I reach into my toolbox, and you reach deep into your body’s sense of knowing).
Breaking Through
We pull from your experience and my deep toolbox: Tantra, kink/bdsm, trauma-informed healing practices, exercise science, movement, and so much more for a well-rounded approach to break through whatever might be in your way. Some of this work is tender, vulnerable, and challenging: I always hold safe, non-judgmental space.
(Maybe you have wanted to try something but needed a little guidance or handholding. Maybe you’re longing for a new practice suggestion. Maybe you’d like to know the fundamental steps to learning how to separate orgasm and ejaculation-shout out to my sperm producers!)
Living Free
Together, we write your personal curriculum to sexual, intimate, and relational liberation. Living free is not a destination, but an ongoing integrated process of being who you are.
I know this can sound hand-wavy. But it is so real. We swing in and out of differing amounts of capacity, different relationships, and different desires. This is an ongoing unfolding who YOU are.
I take this into account and we work together to come up with an achievable, manageable, home play work load to get you to where you want to be!
Some Things We Might Talk About:
sexual function
orgasm
physical sensation
kink
semen retention
trauma healing
gender identity
body dysphoria
relationships/intimacy
polyamory/ethical non-monogamy
Who I Work With
All Bodies
Whether you’re queer, straight, cis, trans, non-binary, or something in between— my goal is to give you the tools you need to build a powerfully sensual and awakened relationship with yourself, the universe, and everything in it. The ripple effects from this cause our lives to shift; to allow our experience to be enjoyable, pleasurable, and fun. Our example can even call in others to do the same.
Rogue Ryder
owner/operator
Rogue is a queer, genderfucked sensual educator, performer, artist, and athlete. Queering Tantra was founded to step outside the dominant societal norms of most Tantra. The queering lens allows more freedom and accessibility, for all bodies.
Rogue has been practicing kink for many years, sexually healing their own trauma along the way. They are a certified Authentic Tantra practitioner of 7 years. Their practice combines BDSM, kink, Tibetan Tantra, somatic awareness, breathwork, movement, and a number of other tools.
As a certified Athletic Trainer with an athletic background in dance, combat sports, and climbing, Rogue brings a unique mixture of play, practice, and praxis to all their work.