Elicitation not Domination.
Are you tired of people offering you magic bullets and quick fixes? Are you tired of linen pants and ONE right way?
Me too.
What if I told you that everything you need for healing, is waiting, inside you, just below the surface.
My work is to help guide it to the surface as an accomplice in your practice. With your trust, I hold the space: a container where we can bring out the turned-on parts of you and the pieces that are begging to have their desires filled.
My variety of trauma informed practices can help your engine come powerfully back life. This approach to healing sexuality is a diverse network of many in-roads to meet you right where you are.
I’m a human, and this is very human work. You’re right where you need to be.
About me:
I’m a queer, genderfucked sensual educator and tantric guide, performer, artist, and athlete. Sensual Tantric coaching with an emphasis on Queering Tantra was founded to step outside the dominant societal norms of society and most Tantra. The queering lens allows more freedom and accessibility, for all bodies.
I’ve been practicing kink for many years, sexually healing my own trauma along the way. I’m are a certified Authentic Tantra practitioner of 8 years. This practice combines BDSM, kink, Tibetan Tantra, somatic awareness, breathwork, movement, and a number of other tools.
As a certified Athletic Trainer with an athletic background in dance, combat sports, and rock climbing, I bring a unique mixture of play, practice, and praxis to all my work.
Mission
My mission is a world full of empowered and self-actualized sexual beings. I envision conversations full of curiosity, had easily about ongoing desire and consent with our sexual partners. I see the world as a place of showing up to our lives playfully, aware of self, and able to communicate our needs and boundaries effectively.
Goals
My goals are to provide clients with a robust toolkit to fit their lifestyle. Some form of movement, a practice of communication, self-touch/pleasure, and somatic awareness. Loosely outlined below, there are many ways to accomplish these goals.
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Get bodies moving!
Movement is integral to our being human, we ar moving bodies. Some form of dance, sport, shaking, rolling, accessible blood-pumping is important.
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Communicate effectively!
Communicating where we are to our partners, friends, co-workers, practitioners etc, is a life ling practice. Speaking up for our body’s needs, our reassurances, concerns etc, opens the door to being present.
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Touch yourself for Pleasure!
Self-touch/pleasure practice is about cultivating a relationship to yourself. The longest lasting relationship you will ever have, and the one it is easiest to forget about. You deserve your own love and attention.
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Build body awareness!
Somatic awareness is being able to tap in and listen to what our bodies are telling us. Our bodies hold the stories of our lives, our tissues literally hold memories. Listening to what our bodies need if a lifelong practice.